Q1: woman should get married in early or late?
I think the key of problem is not the time should be early or late, but the relation with your lover, if you think you are getting well along with each other, both of you have idea of getting married, and approved by your parents, then you had better be married as early as possible, it is certain that you two should arrive the age of legal marriage. Even the housing, finance and work problems are not to become the reason for you to postpone marriage. Because the condtion of everything is perfect does not exist at all. That’s just the excuse and un-real thought of people. Meanwhile, the power of two lover is powerful which can create everything, and the material creates by yourself will be more valuable. If the couple is young after marriage, the woman can consider to have a baby, it is safer and easier for young mother to take care of child, and it would be more better to grow up with child. Otherwise, even though you have fell in love for ten or twenty years, there is no the base of trust, you will break out at last.
Q2: we fall in love in college, why after graduation my boy friend becomes tired about me? He does not love me like before and always angers to me, now that why he does not say goodbye with me?
Now that he has took part in work entering the society, then you guys are not the original identity of being a student or a kid, there are other pressures you have to bear from work, society and reality, at this moment, what you need now is the understanding and comfort from your friends and lover, not to repeat the used school love story. If you can’t view it in this way but to bother him time by time, then it will make you trapped into the plight. Therefore, you’d better reflect yourself to feel the burden he takes.
Q3: my mother asks me to marry with a man with house, otherwise, I can’t get married anyone, I’m so confused, because my boy friend right now has no ability to afford a house, but we get along well, I don’t dare to tell it to my mother and don’t want to break up with my boy friend.
I can understand your confuse, but in my opinion, your misery is inevitable, even your future will be concerned about it, because you have no your own concept about marriage and lack too much energy to face the problem, life is actually a process of facing problem and solving problem, in the course, we can enjoy the success and sense of worth.
